About 6 years ago our family was introduced to the Friendship Circle. Sruly was still very young, and as a family we were adjusting to having an open house full of therapists. When Rivkee walked into our home and showed us what the Friendship Circle was all about I knew immediately it was a world we wanted and needed to be a part of. She introduced us to two very sweet and very mature teenagers. Masha and Darya, our children still talk about you! And later when Shane began coming to spend time with our children as well, the warmth and enthusiasm he brought with him only tripled our appreciation for such an organization. Our children felt the love these volunteers showed towards them as well as towards their brother with special needs. Instead of first having to explain to a friend why their brother was doing something that looked a little odd, they were able to invite their friends from the friendship circle into their home with confidence, knowing that we as a family were %100 accepted and loved - each and every one of us, including Sruly. Their visits became a time for our children to subconsciously relax and embrace a fun and much anticipated visit from our new friends. Masha, Darya and Shane have since graduated and moved on with life, however our children still talk about them and the friendship they brought into our home. Since then we, as a family, have participated in many of the yearly events that the Friendship Circle has offered our community. When we are out as a family, often times I am busy keeping track of our children than schmoozing, but I can't tell you how much I appreciate simply being in such a warm environment filled with other families who also have children with special needs. There is an unspoken and much needed connection.
This past winter when Friendship Circle held yet another beautiful event, I asked my mother if she would like to join us. Usually when there is an event for the entire (typical) community, I go for the children. The events can sometimes be very busy, noisy, loud with lots going on and in the midst of all that, me trying to keep track of everyone. A little overstimulating. Of course I appreciate these events so much because my children always have such a great time and always come home happy, tired and with huge smiles on their faces. "But", I told my mother "somehow the Friendship Circle events are so calming and full of such warmth! Emma, you just have to experience it to see what I am talking about!" And my mother did. It's amazing how these special children can set such a beautiful tone simply by just being who they are. They truly are special children. We thank you friendship circle from the bottom of our hearts for what you are able to provide for these special children, their families and siblings. Thank you!
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